Tuesday, January 7, 2014

The Taj Mahal

This is a paraphrasing of what I put on our travel blog after visiting the Taj Mahal, with a lot more photos. I've recently (2021) added a few notes in [parentheses].
The full story of our travels throughout India (with loads more photos) can be found in my book, The Happy Accident.

February 10th
We managed to heed the call of our alarm, woke the boys, and made our way down to a bleary eyed breakfast, if such a thing exists. Our food was not nearly in as big a rush as we were, and took some time to arrive at our table which was set more or less outdoors in front of the hotel.


The distractions of Agra being what they are managed to make the main gate completely invisible to us despite that gate being a mere hundred yards from our hotel. A fortuitous right turn brought us to the entrance at the west gate, and a quick survey of the sign revealed to us that entrance was two rupees, about five cents, for Indian residents, and 500 rupees for non-Indians. Kids were allowed in for free, and I was amazed that we would get to see yet another wonder for just a few dollars. [A thousand rupees at that time would have been a little over $25 CDN.]



The Taj Mahal is likely the most photographed building in the world, and as such, we were prepared for it to be something of a cliché, our visit to be fun but perhaps underwhelming. But after last night [I was thinking this was because of the view we had from the rooftop of our tiny Hotel Kamar (and they most certainly did not have a snazzy little wordpress site back in 2008), a view that was especially wondrous in the late evening. But the real reason becomes clear near the end], we were pretty sure that wasn't going to be the case. As we approached the main gate, we could see only a small part of the front face of the Taj through the gate's opening. [I get chills every time I see this picture - our kids on the far right, Laura looking concerned for some strange reason; maybe because of the fellas on the left smiling for the photo? and the hazy front face of the Taj Mahal in the distance...]




Avoiding the eyes of the many would-be guides [like those smiley guys], we walked toward the gate, each step adjusting the proportions of the Taj Mahal in the silhouetted space, every movement forward like walking into a self-induced hypnotic state.




At one point, the gate and the Taj set one another off perfectly, showcasing the spectacular symmetry of the entire place, and as the sun began to rise, a touch of muted pink began to show itself on the large dome. Perfect timing for us.




We stepped fully through the gate, and realized we were now completely under the spell.





We looked, and we breathed, we looked at each other, and looked around some more.
We took pictures of our kids




and they took pictures of us.



We took pictures of others



and others took a picture of us.



I took photographs of the details




reflections on the pond




the classic Taj Mahal shots that have been seen in magazines all over the world



and then we did it all over again. Laura and the kids, Matthew on his own, Jonas on his own, Laura and me, Laura and me sitting


Laura and me standing again, Matthew with his hood down this time.




The sun grew more intense and so we posed again to capture the new red on our faces


and new shadows on the Taj Mahal behind us.


Twenty five minutes and exactly fifty pictures later, we [finally] descended the steps, but not without one more photo as I made my way down.



Seconds later, I whispered to Laura, "…stop…" and we started the process all over again.


Closeups


wide angles


Matthew and Laura


Laura and Jonas, and then


someone stopped and offered to take another family shot. [And this one is really nicely framed. Either they were quite short, or they just knew well enough to crouch a bit while taking the photo.]


The air was thick with wonder, and despite the many tourists and gawkers, nothing could diminish the sense that we were witnessing something extraordinary. The fountains in the reflecting pools are not turned on until later in the morning, so we were gifted with a near glass like reflection of all we could see, a gentle breeze carefully and continuously manipulating our double view.




As the sun rose higher, the colours began to intensify; the morning haze gave way to a brilliant, jewel-like blue, the pink glaze on the white marble moving on to yellow gold.


The minarets reflected back like lighthouses


directing tired seafarers safely towards their destination.
Because of the monumental nature of the building, its shape appeared to change with every step forward.




Thirty one minutes and fifty-four pictures later, we put on our protective booties


and stepped out on to the marble base upon which the Taj Mahal sits. We looked in every direction, still transfixed by the wonder of it all, the sun growing warmer on our faces.

The Taj is accompanied by a mosque on one side


and an identical Jam'at Khanah, a 'house of assembly,' on the other,


each offering us more unique views.
As we inspected the meticulous marble inlay work near the main entrance of the Taj,


a middle aged man in a black and gold sweater tapped Matthew on the shoulder and politely asked if Matthew could take a picture of him and his wife. [Matthew gave me a 'what the heck' look, but I said, "Hey man, he gave you the camera.] The man had a thick scarf pulled snugly around his neck, his wife wore an off-white shawl over her sparkling blue sari.


Thank you, the man said as he smiled at Matthew while retrieving his camera. [I'm not sure who was more pleased - the man, me, or Matthew.]
Several times we walked around, looking from every possible angle,










and looking across the Yamuna River, trying to imagine life in the 1600's when the Taj Mahal was built.



Seeing it last night from the other side of the river was an experience that seemed to spring from our dreams.


But now we've been there, we've touched it. It's real.

Eighty minutes and ninety-two pictures later, we stepped off the marble platform, removed our booties, and meandered about the grounds.





Eventually we settled in The Garden, atop the small island mid way between the main gate and the Taj Mahal.






We watched as Indian families and groups of young men carefully posed and took their own group photos. We listened in on casual conversations in Hindi, and several attempted (some successful) business transactions in English, as a "guide" would do his best to lure a tourist to a particular spot for that perfect photo op and offer to take said photo, us knowing full well that an exchange of rupees would be asked for at the end of it all. "Here, Ma'am, it is over here that you must see, the Taj Mahal is most pleasantly positioned for your best photo. Come, I will take it for you. No, a little further this way," he would say, trying to direct his usually female client out of earshot where his demands would not be heard by others.
A little more wandering,



and, one hour and fifty-seven pictures later, we left through the main gate,






back into the busyness of Agra


returning to our hotel rooftop for a picturesque lunch, if there is such a thing.


The whole experience reminded me of a conversation I had with my friend Chris, about how artists can amplify a sense of beauty by creating a relatively plain or sedate atmosphere set to act as a foil to the focal point of a work. Chris made specific reference to Rembrandt's paintings and how many of them involve a single light source that lights only a fraction of the work, intensifying the impact of the moment captured on the canvas. As well, we talked about Beethoven's....9th Symphony? The Ode to Joy one at any rate, and how you have to sit through a sometimes agonizingly dull 20 minutes of fairly average music, until all of a sudden you are hit with this powerful, anthemic masterpiece that is made that much more majestic because 30 seconds ago you were ready to walk out on him, and now this.

So yes, the Taj Mahal is a great building, a remarkable icon, but to find here, after two months of travelling in India (which I must stress is anything but agonizingly dull), the land of open sewers, cows on the streets, garbage and dung underfoot everywhere, poverty and overcrowding, crumbling infrastructure, spitting, burping and all manner of other expulsions, one rupee one pen one chocolate, hello sir rickshaw yes please, let me take you to my shop, men with guns urinating on the side of the road*, twenty hour train rides and ten thousand kilometres later....step through a gate, take a breath and smile....and marvel at this marble angel that sits quietly before you for no other reason than to be beautiful. And as shallow as it is, it works, because it IS beautiful. A monument to love, painstakingly crafted by the hands of twenty thousand imported workers under the thumb of a man who was likely going mad. We strive for beauty, every day, in our lives, our actions, our thoughts, sometimes succeeding and many times failing, and here before us is what appears to be a physical manifestation of what we work for all our lives. And yet, it's just a building, a beautiful building set amidst a hard and often unforgiving landscape. It's a building that makes me realize that every bit of good we do has a place, and the more hopeless the situation seems, the more wondrous that little bit of good can be. When a child comes to us begging for money**, and Laura asks the child what their name is, plays games with them and sings them songs, the smiles that they return are like the light of the sun somehow touching the darkest places on Earth, and it begins to warm up. Just a little bit.


Playful kids


- Sunday, February 10th, 2008

More India photos on my website.
India photo and art prints available on Redbubble.

Some further notes on India:
*India is all of this and so much more. It is very easy to dwell on the negative, as I found myself doing on many occasions, but there is just so much to see and do, so many friendly and inquisitive people, that a visit to India cannot help but lift your spirits.
**There were many children who would ask us for money, but a majority did not. When it did happen, it often seemed like they were not so much interested in the answer as just breaking the ice and opening up conversation, after which all sorts of questions would come.

Bonus India:

Another shot from the day before, two shots pieced together to get the four of us in the photo.

The view from the rooftop of our hotel. Note the kid flying the kite.

View of the Taj Mahal from the top of Agra Fort.

The Bibi Qa Maqbara in Aurangabad that often gets mixed up with the Taj Mahal.


Our travel itnerary

At midnight on July 29, 2007, we were sitting on a plane, anxious to arrive in Rome, Italy, where our travels began. We would spend most of August travelling around Italy before jumping on a ferry in Brindisi that took us to Patras, Greece. Due to an unfortunate event, our stay in Greece was extended by almost a week, and we took another ferry from the island of Chios to Cesme, Turkey on the sunny morning of October 8th.



Four weeks later, November 4th, we got on a train in Istanbul and thirty six hours later arrived (with not a lot of fanfare but into a bit of chaos) in Aleppo, Syria.
On November 19th, we had a ridiculous cross border taxi ride to Amman, Jordan, and then on the 28th boarded a fast but ridiculously expensive ferry that took us to Numweiba, Egypt, on the Sinai Peninsula.
December 15th was pretty exciting as we flew business class from Cairo to Delhi, India. The fact that we'd planned to fly economy to Thiruvananthapurum, India (a mere 2,897 kilometres away from Delhi) only added some intrigue to our rather dull experience to that point (my wife says my sarcasm does not translate well over the internet, but I'm fairly certain the irony here is not lost on you).
Eleven bracing weeks of trains and busses in India, then on March 2nd we flew from Kolkata to Bangkok, Thailand for a brief stopover before taking the scam bus (we did not know it was the scam bus - we were warned, but we did not heed) from Bangkok to Siem Reap, Cambodia on March 5th.
On March 15th we took a bus (that did not have an extra fan belt in its tool kit) from Phnom Penh to Ho Chi Minh City



then travelled up the coast of Vietnam for three weeks. 
After hearing about the gruelling 24 bus from Hanoi to Vientiane, Laos, we visited a travel agent in Phnom Penh and bought four plane tickets. And so it was that on the early morning of April 3rd, a poorly rested taxi driver took us the thirty two kilometres out of Hanoi to the quiet as can be Hanoi airport, and took our flight to Vientiane.



Four visa stamps and $168 US later, we stepped out into the thick warmth of the Lao sunshine, which we enjoyed thoroughly for nearly two weeks.
After some investigating, we took a slow going river boat up the Mekong River for two days, and arrived in Huay Xai, on the border with Thailand.
The following morning we caught a bus to Chiang Mai, and spent our last two weeks in Thailand before heading home on May 1st, 2008.

That is the short version of our travel story.

For an idea of what the long version will look like, go here.
There's a few abridged and unedited writeups of some of our days, some full pages from the book, and a short video of some of our experiences.

If you really like videos, you can see a bit more here as well.

The Book

A couple of years ago, I started on a book. For a whole host of reasons, not least of which the fact that it isn't done yet, this book has yet to be published. For some time, I've felt that the trip that we took back in 2007 and 2008 was too big to sit on a hard drive, only to be seen when someone (poor soul) asked about our pictures, or when I decided to make a new piece of art.
Upon our return on May 1st, 2008, I had all this material - 14,000 photos, 650 videos, and 150,000 words (written during the long evenings on our trip when everyone (sometimes me included) was asleep) - and that material needed an outlet. That was the original reason for putting together a book, I wanted to tell our story.
"It's cool to see that having kids doesn't mean you have to stop travelling," was a familiar refrain we heard from backpackers on many occasions, in many different countries. I was one of those people who could think of a whole host of excuses for not travelling, and having children was probably #37 on that list. Five years before we left, I thought that leaving our home for an extended period was an impossibility. Five years after, I saw it as a necessity. All that we saw, what we did, the people we met, it was all pretty incredible. But the most important thing for both Laura and I, was the time we spent together as a family. I can't put into words, at least not in a few sentences or paragraphs anyway, just what a powerful experience that was for both of us. And seeing how much our children have changed in the meantime makes what we did seem all the more wonderful. At any rate, that was a second reason to publish a book - to inspire those parents who may have been on the fence about travel, or maybe even those who simply weren't interested. There are other reasons too: I love designing the pages with a mix of words and photos, maps and artwork; I'd like to walk into McNally Robinson and see my book on the shelves; I want to make a travel book (that isn't a guidebook) that isn't just words on a page; and I want to prove to myself that I can do it.
So I am devoting a chunk of 2014 to getting this book off the ground. As part of that process, I need to do some significant rewriting to the 'manuscript' that I've written already, and some of that rewriting is going to appear here. The bonus of a blog, is that I have (or at least I think I have) all the space in the world, so that I can include any number of photographs as I see fit. And given that there are 14,000 to choose from, I'm going to show you a lot. I want readers to be inspired to experience as much of the world as possible, whether it be one of the eleven countries we visited, or any of the one hundred and eighty three we did not. In reading the book, I want people to see some of themselves as well. We were certainly not independently wealthy people just looking for something to do. We were (and still are) a real family, travelling on a limited budget with real concerns about safety, sickness, cockroaches, and rabies (and to be honest, theft, lost items, bad weather, large crowds, any body of water, standard transmissions, oh the list goes on).

Feel free to invite anyone to view the stories I post here. If you have any questions about travel, a particular place, busses or trains, hotel or apartment, whatever, I'd be happy to try and answer it. And if you have any advice about the publishing industry in any aspect, I'd be happy to hear it. And if you happen to be a publisher just itching to get a unique travel book out into the world, well, have I got a story for you.



Sunday, December 8, 2013

The Weekend is Over

Well, what a fantastic weekend that was.
Close to a hundred people braved typical mid January temperatures (-30) in early December (normally -10) to take part in the 3rd South Osborne Arts Group studio tours. Lots of scarves and mitts and toques and fogged up glasses were on hand to enjoy a fun weekend of conversation and a glass of hot cranberry apple cider. Well, that is if they could enjoy those kinds of things, they certainly would have.
Sunday proved to be the more popular day in the end as we had a consistent stream of visitors from 12:30 to 6 PM.
Lots of talk of travel, artistic process, history, city development, and of course, the weather throughout the day. I especially enjoy reading people's reactions to my art, what pieces inspire questions, laughs, and further discussion.
It's a tiring weekend but definitely worth it. I really enjoy meeting neighbours that I haven't met before, and love the comment, "It's so cool to see what my neighbour is doing!" or "Who knew that an artist lived here?"
So thanks Winnipeg. Thanks Lord Roberts and Riverview. I love my neighbourhood.